Plans don't Fail, Man just Fails to Make Plans

You don't have a plan by saying I'm going to graduate college and be a doctor. that's not enough if you believe several years of school and a few of residencies will hit the "goal", you have defeated yourself. A goal is its path, In order to plan effectively you must find the honest answers to the following questions. Why am I the person that I am? What contributes to my taste in clothes, music, movies, women/men, cars, ect....? If you lie to yourself your answers may suggest that your likes and dislikes are birthed from within. However if your honest you will realize it's all outwardly. We are who we are because of the things we are not. Ex. Your young, middle class, street smart, only because your not old, upper or lower class, or Harvard groomed(rough example but the point is within it). Discover the experience that will make you what you are not and get it. If you want to graduate college and become a doctor, dont be foolish and believe your goal is the destination. Every action and thought that originates with you determines the outcome of your path. you must be in control of your actions and thoughts at all times. your current activities and thoughts are the wrong ones for what you desire; they are the activities and thoughts of some who has what you have.