Is it In you?

I ask the question. Is it in You? I feel that losing and Failing is not an option in my book. Even though I have lost and will continue to lose @ some point in my life. I don't condition my mind to allow me to believe that I've lost. But, when I lose I still Win. Ironic or stupid?....NO! I feel that When I lose. I learn a weakness that will make me stronger in the End. It will show me where I need to improve, where i've failed myself. For example. I'm playing a video game against a friend, I lose, but In me losing I see where I need to improve in order to win. Simple. So Im always @ a Win-Win